You know what’s be irking me for a while now? Girls — girls who have a lot going for themselves— who also have self-esteem issues…
I had a conversation with a good friend of mine last night, and she was venting to me asking why she’s “average” and why won’t guys talk to her. First off guys, this girl is far from average, she can sing her ass off like it’s no one’s business. For a white girl, she can dance with the best of them. She’s a very pretty girl yet she still feels insecure just b/c some shmuck isn’t showing her anything attention.
side-note: Ladies, never (never) let any man make you feel like you’re not good enough. If that guy doesn’t like you, that’s one less person you have to worry about.
She was complaining how he didn’t approach her after all the nice things he said to her last night. There’s an understanding that there’s a sense of attraction from both parties, I witnessed this attraction as they were tonguing it down the other night. Like most ladies, my friend is traditional when it comes to “the game”. She believes that the guy always need to make a move to show that he’s interested, even if the female is more interested to him
Here’s my take on that: This is the 21st century. You ladies wanted equal rights soo badly, so now that you have it, you should use it to express your interest towards your target whether it’s a man or woman.
Most of you women need to swallow your pride, and make a move if your target is seems hesitant to make the first move (and you know he wants to make a move- you gotta remember, some guys are shy when it comes to generating a convo with a complete stranger of the opposite sex). If yall don’t, yall can’t be mad at the fact that he didn’t approach for whatever reason.
Ladies, you are the most beautiful creatures on this planet. It breaks my heart to when women don’t realize that and they resort to hurting themselves to “look” or “feel” pretty. As I told my friend last night, don’t pay attention to what anyone says b/c if you do, your life is just gonna be miserable. I’ve been down that road (in 2nd grade) where everything someone said to me I took it to heart and broke down and cried. I was miserable and over the years I’ve learned that that was no way to live.
When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile :)
Remember you are beauty in every single way, words can’t be you down…
